Helpful Links
Here you’ll find more resources to help you get solid information and assistance in narcissistic/psychopathic abuse and treatment.
Need Health Insurance?
I am only able to accept HMSA (or HMSA Quest) and self-pay clients. I am not able to accept any other insurances.
You may qualify to get health insurance for yourself and your family HERE, in this federal program, if you have had certain life events, changes in income, or if you qualify for Medicaid or CHIP.
You may qualify for free or reduced healthcare coverage! It may be worth 30 minutes of your time to find out.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
The Hotline provides the following services:
-Crisis intervention.
-Domestic violence education.
-Safety planning.
-Directly connecting callers to Service Providers such as local shelters.
-Referrals to agencies that provide legal, economic self-sufficiency, sexual assault, elder abuse, children’s and other related services.
EMDR Therapy
“Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing” therapy is EMDR therapy. Although it is often not involving eye movement, it always uses some kind of “bilateral stimulation.”
After the therapist and client agree that EMDR therapy is a good fit, the client will work through the eight phases of EMDR therapy with their therapist.
Attention will be given to a negative image, belief, emotion, and body sensation related to this event, and then to a positive belief that would indicate the issue was resolved.
A typical EMDR therapy session lasts from 60-90 minutes. EMDR therapy may be used within a standard talking therapy, as an adjunctive therapy with a separate therapist, or as a treatment all by itself.
Therapist Directory
This database provides information about therapists who meet the qualifications of being certified to treat pathological relationships (relationships with narcissistic abuse). They are listed by country, and also city/state for your ability to search by those parameters. I was the very 1st clinician to be listed in this directory.
One Mom’s Battle, LLC
One Mom’s Battle (OMB) is the intersection of narcissistic abuse and child custody issues. The mission at OMB is to raise awareness and educate family court professionals on post separation abuse as it relates to co-parenting and the family court system. Education on high-conflict individuals and post separation abuse will allow family court professionals to recognize the abusive dynamics that play out in the family court system so they can make decisions that are in the best interest of children.
Educate Your Judge
If you are interested in anonymously educating your judge or family court professional (GAL/minor’s counsel, attorney, custody evaluator, co-parenting therapist, CPS worker, PC, special master or your child’s therapist) about the realities of post-separation abuse and high-conflict custody battles, this organization can help. They also send to schools (teachers, principal’s and guidance counselors) when requested.
Hawaii Online Pro Bono
Volunteer Legal Services Hawaii launched a new service to provide free legal assistance to low-and moderate- income Hawaii residents. The project is called “Hawaii Online Pro bono” and is part of the American Bar Association Free Legal Answers national project. Hawaii Online Pro Bono (HOP) is an online version of a walk-in legal advice clinic where clients request brief advice and counsel about a specific legal issue from a volunteer attorney.
Child & Family Services
Child & Family Service (CFS) is a Hawaiʻi-born, impact-driven, community-based organization with a mission of strengthening families and fostering the healthy development of children. Our statewide community programs include preschool education, prevention of child abuse and neglect, programs for at-risk youth, domestic violence emergency services, therapeutic counseling, employment assistance, programs for elder care, and more.
Fairy Tale Shadows
Fairy Tale Shadows was founded by Kristen Milstead, Ph.D. to support and validate survivors of narcissistic abuse. The website seeks to elevate the voices of survivors through personal narrative, as well as to advance research on pathological love relationships and to develop new resources for survivors based on this research.